My boyfriend's mom has a thing about creating negativity and drama, any advice/opinions?

Ok, his mother is giving him what she got when she was growing up. If she came from a verbally abusive family, 90% of the time they p that on to their kids. I don't think it can be helped. Well, it can be with counseling or something. It's clear that his mom needs some kind of help. Your boyfriend and his mom are both victims. Your boyfriend really needs to talk to his mom and make her understand that what she does is hurtful. A parents love is suppose to be unconditional and they are suppose to be there for their children no matter what, and lift and build them up, not knock them down every chance they get. I recommend both of them going to a counselor and getting some help for this. They both need it. But really your boyfriend seriously needs to talk to her and really make her understand he is hurting because of her. I think she is just saying she is leaving everything to his sister just to get a rise out of him. I would hope a mother wouldn't be so cruel as to leave everything to just one child and not the other. His mom really needs professional help, and he needs to see to it that she gets it. I hope this has helped. Best wishes in the up coming business and many blessing for good fortune. God Bless.